Wednesday, January 28, 2015

Link-up: Letter to the 20 year old me




Hello!
   An amazing friend of mine, Elizabeth, who writes at her blog here, was so kind and allowed me to do a guest post on her wonderful blog. The topic is Dear 20 Year Old Me, and it was a ton of fun to write! Elizabeth and I go to school together, and she is a beautiful girl inside and out. You can take a look at here post on Letters to Jayna here.


   I hope you enjoy!
        -Elissa

Monday, January 26, 2015

A Letter to the Ten Year Old Me



Todays post is written by a friend of mine, who writes at her own beautiful blog here. I hope you enjoy it as much a I did!

Dear 10 year old me,
Wow, how time has flown! Was it really 6 years ago where you had no cares in the world? I remember how you would finish school every day around noon, and then go outside to build forts, hang out with friends, and play baseball for the remainder of the day. Now all you ever do is school, and worry about your looks, and care about what others say. But why do you care so much? Why do you worry so?

10 year old me, don’t get caught up in this world and all its pettiness. Don’t cry over boys who weren’t worth it. Don’t procrastinate homework to the point where it drives you insane. Keep some of that child-like innocence and playfulness with you. Give big hugs to others and tell the people you care about that you love them. Build more forts instead of putting on more makeup, and smile when things don’t go your way.

Most importantly Lizzy, keep your eyes focused on Jesus, not on the boy who seeks you attention, or that mean girl who won’t stop bullying you, or the C you just got on your science exam. No, focus on the love of Jesus Christ, on loving Him, and on loving others. If you remember that, you’ll be just fine throughout the next 6 years. I know you will be, don’t give up.


 With all my love,

Elizabeth

Friday, January 23, 2015

Week eight- streching & food


Well, it can be hard to stay motivated in the winter. With the cold, gross weather, and the occasional injury, it can be hard to stick with the stretching plan, or to eat on track. This week, let's get motivated to keep up our New Year's resolutions. 


STREACHING: I'm just going to admit right now, I am a terrible stretcher. I h-a-t-e laying with my legssprawled  on wall, trying to concentrate on my book instead of the ripping mussels in my inner thighs. So, I'm talking to myself as much as I am talking to you. These are my ideas: first of all, make it part of you routine. Use a theroband while you watch a movie, read a book while you stretch at night. Set a timer for a reasonable amount of time, and follow through on it. 

EATING HEALTHLY: Every one has different bodies, needs, and habits. It's fine to eat some chocolate cake, but keep those veggies in there too. Pack healthy snacks for on-the-go, and get some new ideas! I love making homemade granola bars and I would like to learn to make hummus. I family that I babysit for makes there own, and always has a huge tub- yum!! Search the internet for ideas; there are a lot of good ideas.

 What habits do you need to work on?



Monday, January 19, 2015

Overwhelmed with Love

Yesterday, the internet blew up. I could tell who lived in Washington State by Facebook statuses. Screaming at the TV was pretty common during the football game between the Seattle Seahawks and Green Bay.   Seattle was behind, and was getting whopped on. Then, in the last two minutes they scored two touchdowns, ting the game they eventually won.  It was amazing. If your sitting, reading like "Why the heck is Elissa writing about football for heavens sake" stay with me.

If your new to the blog, I don't really write football commentary's. I write about ballet and coffee. And God. But there was something that happened at the end of this game, I cried. I seriously cried over a football game. (Not like sob cry's, but like, a few tears slipping down my face cried)

The quarter back was crying and the end of the game, and when he was asked about it by the news, he said, "I am just so overwhelmed. God is so faithful........God is so good."

And that's when I cried  teared up.

You guys, even when we lose, God is faithful. Even when life sucks, God is still good. His character doesn't change with our circumstances. His love is the same at every single stinking moment of your life. He is SO GOOD. So faithful. He is our rock, and we will not be shaken.
 -Elissa

Friday, January 16, 2015

Week seven- Getting the Most out of Your Classes


~Getting the Most out of Your Classes~


Know the feeling of going to class, and feeling like your not making progress? Here are some tips to make sure you get the most out of you classes!

    • Arrive early. If you are coming from school, be efficient as you get ready. Do your hair in the car, and change once you get there. This will help you be calmer, and give you more time to get prepared for class.
    •  I don't know about you, but I cannot get much warming up done in the dressing room. I always end up talking or doing something else. Know yourself! Do you get distracted? Listen to some music, do some crunches, and find where you are sore. Get your feet warmed up. Upon coming back from my feet injury, I have developed a routine I use before every class- do the same! Find what works for your body. Your not just preparing your body, your preparing your mind. Get into a good mindset- block everything out, and inter into the world of dance:-)
    • Find a good spot at the barre. Don't stand by people who could distract you- I always try to be by someone better then me, and if I can, face a mirror on my left side. This always pushes me- when I'm looking at myself, I don't get lazy on the second side. 
    • Don't be obnoxious to the teacher- I have seen girls ask a bunch of questions, and make comments, and teachers do not like this. Ask a question if you have one- but make it snappy. Trust me. It's annoying.
    • Bring a water bottle
    • Stay focused
    •  And if you feel like your at a halting spot, talk to your teacher after class! Get advice- ask what they notice, and what you can work on.
       Happy dancing!
            -Elissa






      Monday, January 12, 2015

      you




      Hey you. You, the girl with the pretty eyes.
      You, the girl with the kind heart.
      You, the girl with the inclusive sprit.
      Yes you.

      Why do you question your purpose?
      Why do you think you are not enough?
      Who told you that you were ugly? That you weren't beautiful?


      Girls, these are some of the biggest lies we can buy into. And you know what? That's what they are- lies. Lies we are bombarded with every time we buy something at the grocery store.  They show up in our movies. In our friends. We are part of an insecure generation of girls.


      Girls, why do we build huge walls all around us, protecting us from who-knows-what? Why do we compare ourselves with the superficial images at the checkout line in the grocery store? We wrestle with inadequacy, fear and self conciseness. We wish our lives looked different. More PB teen, less crushed granola bars.  

      But ladies, I cannot say it enough.
      You are valuable.
      You are enough.
      You are more then all of this.
      You have worth.
      A ultimate, never-changing, more-then-you-know, big, huge, and un-imaginable value.

      Let's make a change ladies.






      Friday, January 9, 2015

      Week six- 36 Audition Tips



                             ~ 36 Audition Tips ~
            Because summer corse audition season is right around the corner, here are thirty-six audition tips!

      1. Do your research
      2. Know the style of dance
      3. Eat healthy- no junk or extreme diets!
      4. Plan what you are going to wear ahead of time
      5. Find out what the dress code is
      6. If pointe is included, have at least two pairs of working pointe shoes
      7. Make sure other dance shoes are in good condition- no holes or dirty soles
      8. Order any shoes, tights, leotards, etc., ahead of time
      9. Get pictures taken, if requested
      10. Talk to your instructors about the audition- get their pointers and input.
      11. E-mail or call the school or show, to see if the audition fee should be paid in cash or check
      12. Pre-register if possible
      13. Drink lots of water
      14. Focus of what is ahead of you- the "class"
      15. Be yourself, on and off paper
      16. Be early
      17. Fuel your body
      18. Keep your shoes in a small little bundle, ready to put on quickly
      19. Bring extras of everything
      20. Charge your iPod or phone
      21. Warm yourself up
      22. Feel your body, and stretch out what you need to
      23. Inspire yourself! You can do it!
      24. Make sure your hair is secure
      25. Be kind, but focused, to other dancers
      26. Have confidence
      27. Follow all instructions
      28. Pay attention to the teachers and your dancing- nothing else
      29. Ask questions about the combination if you are unsure; just make sure the teacher hasn't already said
      30. Don't panic if your not in the front; they make a point to look at everybody
      31. Enjoy yourself- show them you love to dance!
      32. Be aware of the space around you
      33. Show that you are willing to learn
      34. Don't frown
      35. Smile and say thank you to the teacher, and panel of people
      36. Wait patently, and remember- you are more then a yes or no.

            Best of luck!
                     -Elissa